Thinking about SM ?
       
  NOT  

More advanced way of having sex
Reason to be stupid, rude and careless
Reason to downplay or discriminate people into other kinds of sex
       
  BUT   More likely to be more intense an experience
Closer to the dangerous edge (depends, obviously, but can be)
<lacking vocabulary to describe right now :-) >
       
      -- as of June 27, 2002
      -- can change, will change and grow
-- !! stating my own opinion, whether 'wrong' or 'right' in anyone's terms !!